balberdi

As human beings, we tend to build up defensive barriers around our feelings. But one of the greatest feelings is being able to have the friends in your life that allow you to remove those barriers and reveal your true self to those that matter. If you are able to do this, then you are one of those fortunate ones. I believe I’m fortunate for the friendships that I do have…

One thing I realized is that there are things in life that you just cannot control. By putting so much effort into controlling the uncontrollable, you miss out on the unlimited possibilities that life can bring. It’s best to just let things happen because things happen for a reason. And there really isn’t any point in trying to avoid the inevitable… don’t hide from your feelings and brush it off as if it means nothing just because you don’t want it to be something. You very well could be missing out on something that will end up great.

Sometimes it’s great to stop looking at the big picture… because it’s the little things that get put together to make something big. When you’re focused on the big picture and the current status isn’t what you are envisioning… then stop looking at the big picture and take the time to look at all the little things. You may find out what’s f*ing up the big picture… or maybe even find that the big picture you were envisioning all along, wasn’t really what you wanted…

Is it easier to forgive? or forget? I can definitely forgive people but you really can’t forget much. There are things that happen in life that you will never forget. But what you can do from it is learn… grow… make a change. Things have been done and my hippocampus (part of my brain dealing with memory) won’t let me forget it. If it has given me a bad impression of you… don’t avoid it… help me change my impression of you… 

I have more on my mind….. but I’ll prolly add it later…